The Controversy of job seekers in Albania

What would you do to be employed?

According to the BBC this is what one man did to make it to his first day at work.

 A US company owner gave an employee a new car after he went the extra mile – 20 miles (32km) in fact, walking all night to make his first day at work.

After his own car broke down, Walter Carr made the long commute by foot through the suburbs of Birmingham, Alabama, to his new job in removals.

A police officer spoke to Mr Carr en route and, impressed by his grit, took him to get some breakfast.


I put an advert in an Albanian newspaper looking for a babysitter and cleaner. The non- negotiable qualities were


I got a few calls from people who could do neither and was impressed by their dedication to find employment regardless of lack of the main qualities defined in the advert.

Then there were the ones who got their brothers, cousins and friends to make the enquiry.

And then there was the most interesting group. These were the ones who claimed to have both requirements and experience for the job requirements so I made appointments for interviews and then waited.


Because I urgently needed an employee, I followed up with phone calls. To my astonishment, these were some of the responses that I got.

“It was raining so I could not come for the interview.”

So would this person only work in the dry season?

“It was too hot, can I come when it is cooler”

Would this person only work in the spring and autumn?

“I forgot that I had to meet my cousin for a coffee”

So will your cousin give you a job?

I forgot to set my alarm, I overslept.”

While that is plausible,  please…..

“I went to the beach can I come in two days?”

To the beach and you need a job? Why not go to the beach when you are earning money to pay your way?

“I have exams, can I come another time”

Why would you not mention that on the first phone call?

“I am so sorry I was a little sick, can we meet for a coffee”

No I do not want to me for a coffee I want to interview you for a job.

And then the most SHOCKING

“You place is a little far, can you meet me in the center?

Seriously, you want me to meet you somewhere at your convenience so I can offer you a job that you claim to want?

That way made me speechless.

Okay, eventually I did get a small number who had no excuses and actually came to the interviews some accompanied by mummy, sister, friends cousin etc.

I try to go out once a week with my husband and this job would require that when I go out, the baby sitter spends the night in my place with my 7yr old daughter. One lady said “No problem but only if I bring my 18 year old son because I would be scared to stay alone.  Really, you want your 18 year old son to spend the night in my 7 year old daughter’s bedroom?

One girl said “I can stay the night but only if I bring my mum”

Then there is the one who came for a trial day two hours late and left two hours early while telling me that she was desperate for a job but forgot to give her brother the house key and needed to leave.

One said she could look after my 7 year old but would clean nothing.

So do these people really want jobs?

Yes they do.

Do they want money? Yes they do.

But do they need money?


There is a very big difference between what people WANT and what people NEED.

I want a brand new Mercedes sports car, but what I really need is any kind transport.

I want a mansion but what I need is a roof over my head.

I want an I-phone but what I need is just a phone.

Truth be told, I have everything that I need but not everything that I want.

In my opinion the basic human needs are, shelter, clothing, food, water, oxygen and fuel.

I come from a continent where people literally die from thirst because they cannot get a glass of water. While I commend the American guy who walked 32 kilometers to work, for some in Africa, walking 20 kilometers a day every day to make life possible is an everyday reality.

If your next meal is only possible if you go to work, there is no way in hell that you would say “ooops it was raining I could not make it to the interview.”

The truth is many young people in Tirana have all their needs taken care of. eg mummy and daddy sending food and money from the village, rich uncle in the USA sending money and clothes, a sister in France etc

Given my country of origin, I find it difficult to comprehend that rain can stop someone attending an interview. I guess there are different definitions of poverty and not being able to afford the latest I-phone is not one them.


Only call if you really need a job.

Do not let someone else do your job interview.

If you have no time to attend an interview, do not call.

If you do not speak the required language, do not call.

Do not be late for a job interview.

If you are over 18, do not bring your friends and relatives to interviews.

If you have too much money, go on vacation and stop wasting my time.

Is that too much to ask?


Any thoughts on the subject are welcome.


3 thoughts on “The Controversy of job seekers in Albania

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  1. Grew article. I’m African American living in tirana as well and the lack of professionalism kills me at times too… they complain about unemployment but then won’t show up for a job interview, then when a huge influx of foreigners come when they eventually join the EU they are going to complain about foreigners taking their jobs away, you know, the ones they dont want to show up for.


  2. You can’t hold countries of the world, collectively, to your personal standards, or what you see as the standards of you country. This is the exact mentality that justifies all forms of discrimination and racism, leading to the most extreme results.

    Consider that cultures differ, and perhaps even the culture of babysitting for a comparatively ‘rich’ foreigner is something unusual the people you met. Also consider that many firms in all countries will interview many (sometimes hundreds) of inappropriate candidates for a vacancy.

    The right person is out there. If you can’t find them, perhaps you as an employer are not so attractive either.


  3. Dan, your ridiculous comment only highlights how delusional and uneducated you are. There is no person with common sense that can justify racism and discrimination. If the OP had not mentioned his ethnicity, you wouldn’t show your true colors. The reality is Albanians are racists like you said but it doesn’t justify the type of behaviour if job seekers.

    Comparing interviewing for a baby sitter with a recruiting firm is a stretch. A big one. I doubt any firm would agree with the someone else taking the interview for someone else. Being of a poor country is not an excuse to be lazy and unprofessional.

    It is vain to extrapolate as I can’t go past the stupidity of your first comment. How does having standards, honorable ones, justifies racism and discrimination in the most extreme results? Should I say one should not expect more from a country who sells it’s young girls to prostitution and does absolutely nothing to rehabilitate them when they come back, especially in cases where they were forced? I’d say your mentality is coherent with this type of insensitivity. Even though my family is Albanian, I do not agree with social injustice.


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