Who the hell is Albania

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EVEN WITH ZERO INTEREST IN ALBANIA YOU WILL LOVE THIS BOOK

Even if you have no interest in Albania, you will love this book. The short and  funny stories will keep you laughing through- out no matter which country you come from. And do not let the sub-title fool you because although Mother Teresa and Skanderberg are mentioned, this book is about present day Albania from the eyes of a foreigner.

The choice of the narrator is A BIG SURPRISE and yet it fits. It tells of a people for whom generosity is way of life. Where in the world can a woman walk around at 2AM in a dark  alley and feel safe? Tirana  is such place. Of course, anything can happen but it is highly unlikely.

This book is not a travel guide because it goes many steps further. Even if you never set foot in Albania, you…

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Homosexuals, are they for real?

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I have lost count of the number of times I have spoken to people who really believe that homosexuality is an invention of the modern world that is normalized by press.

So is this our invention? Apart from the fact that if the bible is to be believed, the story of Sodom and Gomorrah dates back at least 2000 years, and the ancient Greek depiction of same sex relationships go back to 600BC, I had the good fortune to meet a gay man called John, so I asked him “Did you decide to become gay?”

Needless to say John was shocked by my ignorance but he kindly explained that being gay is not a choice. According to him, he was a happy little boy who played football like all the boys his age; that is until he reached puberty and started to find his male playmates attractive. He knew this…

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SCHATTEN Des SCHWURS

Dieses Buch bietet fast für jeden etwas.

Sie interessieren sich für die Geheimnisse der Schwarzen Magie, Voodoo und der Kraft unseres Geistes?

Oder lesen einfach gerne Geschichten aus der Zeit der Kolonisation und Unterdrückung der Schwarzen in Afrika?

Oder suchen einfach einen Roman, der so spannend ist, dass Sie morgens mit Rändern um den Augen aufwachen?

Als eine Afrikanerin kann ich Ihnen versichern, dass Voodoo so sicher existiert wie Tag und Nacht. E.L. Bono, der Autor des Buchs begeistert nicht nur indem er eine Geschichte, die das Leben schrieb, in einem spannenden Thriller wiedergibt, sondern führt leicht verstaendlichleichtverständlich wissenschaftliche Fakten an, die uns verstehen lassen wie und warum die Kraft unseres Geistes so mächtig ist, dass sie Schicksale entscheiden kann.

SCHATTEN Des SCHWURS

Dieses Buch bietet fast für jeden etwas.

Sie interessieren sich für die Geheimnisse der Schwarzen Magie, Voodoo und der Kraft unseres Geistes?

Oder lesen einfach gerne Geschichten aus der Zeit der Kolonisation und Unterdrückung der Schwarzen in Afrika?

Oder suchen einfach einen Roman, der so spannend ist, dass Sie morgens mit Rändern um den Augen aufwachen?

Als eine Afrikanerin kann ich Ihnen versichern, dass Voodoo so sicher existiert wie Tag und Nacht. E.L. Bono, der Autor des Buchs begeistert nicht nur indem er eine Geschichte, die das Leben schrieb, in einem spannenden Thriller wiedergibt, sondern führt leicht verstaendlichleichtverständlich wissenschaftliche Fakten an, die uns verstehen lassen wie und warum die Kraft unseres Geistes so mächtig ist, dass sie Schicksale entscheiden kann.

The Controversy of job seekers in Albania

What would you do to be employed?

According to the BBC this is what one man did to make it to his first day at work.

 A US company owner gave an employee a new car after he went the extra mile – 20 miles (32km) in fact, walking all night to make his first day at work.

After his own car broke down, Walter Carr made the long commute by foot through the suburbs of Birmingham, Alabama, to his new job in removals.

A police officer spoke to Mr Carr en route and, impressed by his grit, took him to get some breakfast.

 

I put an advert in an Albanian newspaper looking for a babysitter and cleaner. The non- negotiable qualities were

“MUST SPEAK ENGLISH AND KNOW HOW TO SWIM.”

I got a few calls from people who could do neither and was impressed by their dedication to find employment regardless of lack of the main qualities defined in the advert.

Then there were the ones who got their brothers, cousins and friends to make the enquiry.

And then there was the most interesting group. These were the ones who claimed to have both requirements and experience for the job requirements so I made appointments for interviews and then waited.

THEY DID NOT COME OR CALL OR TEXT

Because I urgently needed an employee, I followed up with phone calls. To my astonishment, these were some of the responses that I got.

“It was raining so I could not come for the interview.”

So would this person only work in the dry season?

“It was too hot, can I come when it is cooler”

Would this person only work in the spring and autumn?

“I forgot that I had to meet my cousin for a coffee”

So will your cousin give you a job?

I forgot to set my alarm, I overslept.”

While that is plausible,  please…..

“I went to the beach can I come in two days?”

To the beach and you need a job? Why not go to the beach when you are earning money to pay your way?

“I have exams, can I come another time”

Why would you not mention that on the first phone call?

“I am so sorry I was a little sick, can we meet for a coffee”

No I do not want to me for a coffee I want to interview you for a job.

And then the most SHOCKING

“You place is a little far, can you meet me in the center?

Seriously, you want me to meet you somewhere at your convenience so I can offer you a job that you claim to want?

That way made me speechless.

Okay, eventually I did get a small number who had no excuses and actually came to the interviews some accompanied by mummy, sister, friends cousin etc.

I try to go out once a week with my husband and this job would require that when I go out, the baby sitter spends the night in my place with my 7yr old daughter. One lady said “No problem but only if I bring my 18 year old son because I would be scared to stay alone.  Really, you want your 18 year old son to spend the night in my 7 year old daughter’s bedroom?

One girl said “I can stay the night but only if I bring my mum”

Then there is the one who came for a trial day two hours late and left two hours early while telling me that she was desperate for a job but forgot to give her brother the house key and needed to leave.

One said she could look after my 7 year old but would clean nothing.

So do these people really want jobs?

Yes they do.

Do they want money? Yes they do.

But do they need money?

NO THEY DO NOT.

There is a very big difference between what people WANT and what people NEED.

I want a brand new Mercedes sports car, but what I really need is any kind transport.

I want a mansion but what I need is a roof over my head.

I want an I-phone but what I need is just a phone.

Truth be told, I have everything that I need but not everything that I want.

In my opinion the basic human needs are, shelter, clothing, food, water, oxygen and fuel.

I come from a continent where people literally die from thirst because they cannot get a glass of water. While I commend the American guy who walked 32 kilometers to work, for some in Africa, walking 20 kilometers a day every day to make life possible is an everyday reality.

If your next meal is only possible if you go to work, there is no way in hell that you would say “ooops it was raining I could not make it to the interview.”

The truth is many young people in Tirana have all their needs taken care of. eg mummy and daddy sending food and money from the village, rich uncle in the USA sending money and clothes, a sister in France etc

Given my country of origin, I find it difficult to comprehend that rain can stop someone attending an interview. I guess there are different definitions of poverty and not being able to afford the latest I-phone is not one them.

FREE ADVICE

Only call if you really need a job.

Do not let someone else do your job interview.

If you have no time to attend an interview, do not call.

If you do not speak the required language, do not call.

Do not be late for a job interview.

If you are over 18, do not bring your friends and relatives to interviews.

If you have too much money, go on vacation and stop wasting my time.

Is that too much to ask?

 

Any thoughts on the subject are welcome.

 

Who the hell is Albania

EVEN WITH ZERO INTEREST IN ALBANIA YOU WILL LOVE THIS BOOK

Even if you have no interest in Albania, you will love this book. The short and  funny stories will keep you laughing through- out no matter which country you come from. And do not let the sub-title fool you because although Mother Teresa and Skanderberg are mentioned, this book is about present day Albania from the eyes of a foreigner.

The choice of the narrator is A BIG SURPRISE and yet it fits. It tells of a people for whom generosity is way of life. Where in the world can a woman walk around at 2AM in a dark  alley and feel safe? Tirana  is such place. Of course, anything can happen but it is highly unlikely.

This book is not a travel guide because it goes many steps further. Even if you never set foot in Albania, you will experience it through this amazing book and wonder why you never visited this land.

 

ALBANIA

EVEN WITH ZERO INTEREST IN ALBANIA YOU WILL LOVE THIS BOOK

Even if you have no interest in Albania, you will love this book. The short and  funny stories will keep you laughing through- out no matter which country you come from. And do not let the sub-title fool you because although Mother Teresa and Skanderberg are mentioned, this book has nothing to do with them.

 

 

 

Written by an outsider who stumbled upon this country quite unexpectedly, it depicts the truth about present day Albania while dispelling the often exaggerated negative things the media fixates on. It is a wonderful and easy read that I enjoyed. The choice of narrator was A BIG SURPRISE and yet it fits so well. Some have compared this book to Borat, I chose to disagree, because the stories in this book are real.

 

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